Goals

New Year's Resolutions have been a tradition in my fam since I can remember.  It honestly is one of my favorite things we do and I just love the season after Christmas.  I love the chance to refocus, gather yourself & get ready to kick some butt in the new year.

What we do:

Trace our hand and create a visual representation of our goals.  I have a hand goal sheet that was from when I was 5 with handwriting that was illegible.  Jack has them now and it's so fun to see his hand already growing.

You then create a goal for each finger and palm area if you'd like.  Each goal should focus on a different aspect of your life. Here are the ones we use generally.

Social | Personal | Academic | Financial | Spiritual | Physical | Spousal 

At the end of the year we bring our goals to a family dinner and share how they went, what worked, what didn't etc.  My mom and us decide if the goal was completed. If the goal was completed you get 5 bucks.  It's awesome.

Here are mine for this year.

1. Spiritual - Read the Book Of Mormon with the #thebookofmormonproject

2. Social - Listen. Talk Less, ask more questions

3. Personal - Make (x) amount of money in freelance

4. Spousal - Go on at least one getaway/vacation with just Chris & I

5. Financial - Create a monthly budget and stick to it

BONUS - Create a focus word for the year. Something that you can center around and keep as a little reminder to help you improve.

My 2018 Focus Word: Outstretch

out·stretch

verb

past tense: outstretched; past participle: outstretched

1. extend or stretch out (something, especially a hand or arm).

   "I walked with my arms outstretched"

   • go beyond the limit of.

     "their good intentions far outstretched their capacity to offer help"

I want to offer more help, go further in relationships & dive deeper into the word of the Lord.  I want to go past my limit and do things that make me uncomfortable.  Because I know that's where I grow.

Holiday Break

Our Christmas break was absolutely fantastic!! Utah and Idaho with our fams was much needed.  

Annual Christmas dinner with the #Trio

Christmas Eve Sunday. Is there anything better than just singing hymns for church the entire time? The answer is: no, there is not.

Earrings by Michelle Made It!

Seeing the lights and the Grand America window displays.

Shout out to Zeke & Asia for bringing this game. Organ Attack is LEGIT.

Skiing at Grand Targee

Early Christmas Eve

We had Christmas early with Jack so we didn't have to haul his gifts back and forth between Chicago and Salt Lake since we will be in Utah over actual Christmas.  We had a blast! Having Christmas with a kid is so stinking fun.

Christmas Eve consisted of jammies, the Grinch, putting together our neighbor gifts, Christmas stories, reading Luke 2 and a dance party to our Christmas Cheer playlist.

Christmas morning consisted of lots of claps, laughs, tears, blocks, ribbon and a yummy breakfast.

The Black and White wrapping paper you see I created! I wanted some Christ centered wrapping paper this year. So I made my own with my handwriting! It says “Come adore on bended knee, Christ the Lord the newborn King!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

A few snaps at the park

Date night turned into a mini photoshoot at the park.  

Wrigley Building

The Wrigley Building has such gorgeous Christmas decorations.  Lucky for us it was 50 outside that day!

subway adventures

You know those times where you plan to do something and it does not work out.  We had one of those moments on Saturday.  Tried to go to this parade and it was freezing and couldn't see a thing.  We ended up just playing in the subway station while waiting for our train.  Still a fun night.  Gotta go with the flow as a parent.

Jack's first photos!!

winter playlist

yesterday I felt pretty down. I felt like my life wasn't my life.  I started to be angry, questioning why I got married so young and why I already had a child, wondering if laundry and cleaning was my only point of existence.  It's hard playing the "what if" game.  I have no regrets, but sacrifice can be hard, and that's ok.  I'm thankful for the life my Heavenly Parents have blessed me with.  When I look for them in my life that's when I find myself.  Shout out to all you moms and women who feel like no one notices them.  I SEE YOU.

Lunch w/ Dad

Jack and I took the metra train to visit dad at work.  Chris works at an ad firm downtown, Energy BBDO and we love grabbing some lunch with him.  The Nutella Cafe is literally right next door to his office and because Chris loves Nutella he has been dying to go.  To be honest, the crepe was fine but I would never go again. Do yourself a favor and go to Eataly or anywhere else. At least they had a cool sign.  Chris had a few more minutes before he had to get back so we walked along the river and chased Jack.  I love my crew.

Zoo Day

We had a warm day here in Chicago. Warm being, 48 degrees.  My friend Emily suggested a Zoo Day.  Lincoln Park Zoo is completely FREE and it was almost empty.  The monkeys were our favorite.  The bridge to walk to the Farm area from the street had an amazing view of the Chicago skyline!

Caribbean Cruise

In 2016 we planned a Carnival cruise with our good friends, Kelly & Brock, over my spring break.  We wanted to have sort of a fun baby moon, as I was pregnant with Jack at the time.  Literally one week after booking the cruise, the warnings about pregnancy and zika were becoming more and more prevalent.  Soooo we decided to cancel and go another time, after Jack was born.  We ended up booking this cruise almost a year in advance and it felt like we were waiting forever.  We had planned to go to Puerto Rico, St. Thomas etc. But, hurricanes had other plans. We were rerouted to the western Caribbean stops and still had an absolutely amazing time.  Here are some photos and iphone pics of the trip!  

Before getting on the ship we ran some errands and got some yummy crepes at Cafe Club

First stop: Cayman Islands

Because of the wind we didn't tender boat from the normal location.  We tendered from the other side of the island.  Lucky for us, their was an amazing private beach to hang at while we waited to go on our excursion.  We went to Sting Ray City and it was one of the coolest things I've ever seen.  Huge sting rays just swim right up to you and you can feed them.  I wish I had photos but it was fun to be in the moment too.  DO NOT BUY THIS EXCURSION ON THE CRUISE SHIP.  You will pay twice as much.

Second stop: Roatan

The ship ports at Mahogany Bay which is owned by Carnival.  It's basically like being on the cruise ship, lots of alcohol, over priced souvenirs and sitting around.  We decided to get out of the port and do our own thing.  Instead of paying $30/person for a taxi we opted for the rental car.  It was $40 for the day in cash + gas and they kept an I.D. as collateral. We drove to Half Moon Bay and went snorkeling.  It has an amazing dive community I even met someone from SLC, UT.  We needed a snack and I needed a smoothie.  We grabbed some lounge chairs at Gingers and it was so so good.  They had delicious specials and amazing seafood that was caught that morning.  You'll have great conversation with one of the cooks, Sexy Marco as well as the owners, Ginger and Mr. Ginger.  They are from Houston, Texas and we loved talking to them about the Astros and the World Series.

We really wanted to eat local food.  This place had amazing street tacos & traditional Honduran dinner plates.

Third Stop: Belize City

We did the Cave Tubing Excursion.  Again, DO NOT BUY THIS EXCURSION ON THE SHIP.  Some life-time cruisers told us to book through "Butts Up"  it was only $35/person.  On the ship it was around $90.  

Butts Up carries your tubes up for you and provides an AMAZING lunch of homemade Tamales.  Definitely something worth doing once.  You can rent water shoes there for $3. 

Halloween on the ship. A captain and hippy. No couples costume just needed something easy to pack!

Fourth Stop: Cozumel

Instead of doing an excursion we opted for exploring the city on our own.  Across the street from the port are tons of rental car options.  My husband had been dying to ride scooters the whole trip and again it was $40 for the day + gas.

We drove on the scooter/bike road for about 30 minutes to a bunch of beach spots.  The scooter guy told us his favorite beach spot is Palancar Beach It did not disappoint.  Beautiful water and good food.  The chairs are $5 for the day.  We had fun just playing cards, eating ceviche, throwing the football and swimming.

formal night.  Literally took this same picture everynight.

Last night on the ship.  We were feeling sad, yet a little relieved we didn't have to eat cruise food one more day.  Kelly & Brock were literally the best travel companions we could have asked for.  Can't wait for our next annual couples trip.

Miami:

We ate at a this yummy little spot for brunch, Boho. It's owned by a Greek family and they serve amazing fresh pressed juices.  Looking back I wish I got the Eggs Benedict that Kelly got but all the dishes were amazing.  Then we went to a matinee movie, Thor: Ragnorok, and rummaged through an overpriced candy store.  Naturally, that night Chris and I went to another movie, American Made, because what better thing to celebrate being away from your kid than going to a movie?!

So after all that here are some basic tips and advice from my first cruise experience.

Japanese Garden

holding hands & fall playlist

We had stake conference yesterday and I keep thinking of the message of Our loving Heavenly Parents always stretching their arms to reach us. There are many times Jack doesn’t want to hold my hand or snuggle in on a hug... but the times he does, it make my heart grow and I feel so connected to him as his mother. I feel that same way when I reach back to God. Hoping I can remember to reach up to Them this week because I really do need it. Also, Chicago fall is AMAZING so /i wanted to share a fall playlist!

West Loop Wall Crawl

Mural hunting in the West Loop with some of our homies.

Pizza Wings

108 N Green St. (Parlor Pizza)

Bombobar

Delicious donuts that you infuse with cream and jelly and stuff.  My favorite is Maple Buttercream. 

Striped Wall

135 N Peoria St.

B&W Wall & Pig

Morgan & Lake St. "L" Train Stop

Ghosts

113 N. Green St.

County Line Orchard

County Line Orchard is going to be a new Indigenous People's Day tradition for our fam! Located in Hobart, Indiana, this place has it ALL.  Delicious donuts and treats, farm animals, tractor rides, apple, sunflower and pumpkin picking.  Jack was loving every minute of it, until the end when he completely fell apart in the apple orchard. Hence why I have no photos in the orchard hahaha. 

#KindComments

Dallas Clayton just finished a new mural in Chicago!  It's located in Wicker Park at 1611 E Damen Ave.  We drove up and parked a few blocks away so we could park for free! (free parking in Chicago ain't no joke)  It was so fun to read all the amazing power and love statements on the wall.  I honestly couldn't stop smiling looking at it.  Seeing my baby boy under words like "You're a Wish and a Wonder!" and "you're a miracle child!" was really moving.  I hope everyone feels that as they see those words! Also just a few blocks away is En Hakkore and En Hakkore 2.0 we love Asian fusion food and this place has some delicious Bibimbap and Korean BBQ tacos. GO TRY!

UPDATE! The mural is painted over :( honestly I am so sad about it!

My loves

Maggie Daley Park 

Promontory Point

Promontory Point is about a fifteen minute walk from our house and it has the best view of the whole city.  So fun hanging with my girl Kelly.  WE MISS YOU!